between being accessible and being appreciated, and between having connections and having genuine relationships
Because at the end of the day, the true measure of a relationship is not how often someone needs you, but whether they remember you even when they need nothing from you
does not necessarily mean having people who genuinely care about you.
Sometimes, the people who need you the most are not the ones who care about you the most.
And perhaps, as we grow older, we must learn to distinguish between being useful and being valued,
No calls. No check-ins. No genuine interest in how you are doing or whether you are doing well.
And that makes you wonder: Do people value you for who you are, or only for what you can do for them?
Perhaps the real lesson is that having a long list of influential contacts
classes. Over time, I have come to notice a recurring pattern.
People often reach out when they need you to make a process easier, simplify a procedure, open a door, or make them feel special. But once their needs have been met, your name seems to disappear from their minds.
family, and acquaintances.
Then, I asked myself a simple question, one I probably should have asked myself many years ago:
Am I being content, or am I being used?
Working in the banking industry has given me access to people from different walks of life and across various social
@b_abiodun4 It should have been for mocking your anointing ancestor abiodun, village people at work. Six days ago, you were complaining about your rent, and you have powers and couldn't use it to sort your issues na to kpai person pikin, and maybe you have a daughter. Ancestor abiodun rest
@jon_d_doe When you succeed in your cheating adventure, it doesn't entail you're too smart most of the time it's just people overlooking your foolishness and waiting for the right time to act. Enjoy your time