You can teach all the values and morals you want but it all falls away for the first dude she likes with that half-child/half-adult brain varsity students have. If that dude ain't shit, she's cooked
1) Don't add new Addictions to the already existing ones in your life.
Flee from any new Addiction
2) The best way to be happy, is to do the things that gave you so much joy as a child.
Play biro games, do tinko tinko, etc
3) You know that the probability of some of the people around you making it in life, is 30% dependent on how serious you take your own life.
You know this.
You have all the resources, knowledge and tools.
But procrastination and lack of discipline might be hindering you.
4) If you experience lots of sexual intercourses before marriage, you might not want to stick with your spouse's sexual differences. And instead of making it work out together, you might find yourself going outside for sex (because it's a familiar past habit)
5) Your children are mini Yous.
I know you might want to conform them to fit your image and values and ideologies, but you shouldn't.
Guide them. And discipline them.
But don't force your own motives on them.
6) If you avoid taking some chances now in life, you'd find yourself forcing your children to take those chances. And it won't be for their own interest, but because you are projecting your own personal wishes on them.
7) If you wear your watch on your right hand, then you probably don't really care what people think about your life.
8) When someone comes to you for help, if you can't help them, try to encourage them not to lose hope.
For your words might just prevent them from getting a rope to hang themselves.
9) Children get depressed too, when they are frequently misunderstood.
A child doesn't care about houses or cars or money.
All they want is for you to assure them that it's safe for them to always come back home and sleep well under your protection.
Don't judge them harshly. You made your mistakes. They will make theirs too.
10) Eat more vegetables and drink more water everyday.
If you know you don't have emergency 10 million to cover impromptu health bills... Then use your 4k to buy good healthy foods and protect your health.
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Remember to live and enjoy the little moments of life. For these moments makes life truly worth living.
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Thank you for reading my thoughts
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I’ve always preached this 🤞🏾
Make sure you get something for yourself every time you get paid. You should always have something to show for all your hard work.
Because the salary will finish okes, so at least make yourself happy 😂