Spotlight Effect the ego's arrogant assumption that it is the main character in everyone else's movie. Lol once you realize this you'll see you just fucked your family to be a star in something no else gives a shit about. About your selfish ideas and image lol
Dont need them to be evil to justify boundaries,dint need women to be perfect to enjoy them you accept them as they are messy and incomplete and often frustrating af. Navigate this reality with skill.dint hate chaos just don't let it consume you. Can't be bitter obcessed
Don't miss that she has fear under her manipulation. The hunger underneath the testing the exhaustion under the chaos. Don't let the expirences define you entire world view