If a Wife cheats & she asks her Husband to forgive her and he does- she will not only continue cheating but she will also resent the Man for forgiving her & disrespect him in extreme ways until he gets the ultimate message- she checked out of the marriage way before she cheated.
Don’t flatter yourself, you’re stressing over men who wouldn't give you a second look. There’s no history of Igbo men seeking out Yoruba women because the attraction simply isn't there, you’re essentially invisible to the people you're trying to provoke.