Healthy relationships are tight as fuck. it’s so cool to be able to be like “hey you’re doing these things that are really bothering me let’s address them and work on it.” and have it not end in arguing and insults. communication is super attractive .
if you want your relationship to last. you really gotta be cool with cutting off what makes your partner uncomfortable…it’s not control at all, it’s simply respect..It’s not toxic…it’s just growth.
The WORST feeling for a man is when he tries to have a conversation with a woman about her BEHAVIOR that hurts him everyday, but instead of listening, she gets ANGRY and turns the situation around on him and makes him look like he’s the problem.