Dear married men,
For every married woman that you have read their DMs, complaining about your infidelity, I have always found ways to advise them not ruin their marriage because of it.
Because I am a man, & I am also married.
While it may seem as if men have the cheating "privileges", it's not right for you to be bold & unapologetic about it.
If you know that you're tired of your wife, please do the honorable thing, & ask for a divorce.
Do not say that you're not divorcing her, because of your children.
If you keep hurting her, your children will be seeing it.
Even if they may not be bold enough to confront you.
Many of you careless & selfish married men will get your pay back in the future.
You do not expect your wife to cheat, but you cheat and rub it on her face.
Not only that, you sexually starve her, and satisfy your urge outside, & still act like just because you're providing, she has no right to complain.
Women don't truly forgive cheating.
While they may not hate cheating, they hate to be cheated on.
So, if you know that you cannot stay faithful to your wife, the least you can do, is to respect her enough not to make her to continue hurting, & secretly and patiently planning for your downfall.
And your punishment will mostly start to manifest, if you go financially broke, or when you're done raising your children.
There are ways you'll behave, & your wife will not be suspecting you.
Even if she suspects, she'll just let things be for her own peace of mind, & for the fact that she sees you as "sensible" in your misgivings.
However, if you have been "good", & you know that you have not been careless, and your wife keeps wanting to catch you.
Then, she has most likely strayed, or is about to stray.
End.
Don’t let men shame you for being a materialistic bad bih trust me.
If they had the opportunity to be a girl just like you,they’d do unthinkable things.