안녕하세요! 전 원래 ㄱㅇ 일본팬사건 kcon에서 업로드했는분 저였고 그날에 첫날이고 엠카에 그팬이랑 옆에 스탱딩했어요. 전 진짜 밝히고싶은데 그팬이랑 지금 ㄱㅇ싸풀사건 똑같은분 잘모르겠어요. 그리고 그 남돌한테 앞에 위협안했더라고요. 그kcon에서 봤던 팬 계속 울고 화나게 친구한테 죽고싶다고말했음. 그분 친구도 ㄱㅇ한테 위협안말했지만 ㄱㅇ한테게속 그남자가 관심을 받고싶기때문에 선물주고싶을거같은데. 대신 ㄱㅇ할수없대 몸짓으로 말했고 팬한테 슬픈미소 보여줬어여
i saw a tweet the other day talking about a gw jfan who seemed to be someone who attends many fansigns/events, who was crouched down sobbing at the kc*n la front row barricade last year for a super long time just bc gw took a selfie with different fans at another part of the stage, and she kept repeating she wanted to ☠️
and i know they must be talking about the exact same jfan who i was standing directly behind at kc*n la day 1 last year
she suddenly bent down in front of me at one point and was straight up crouched down at the barricade full on SOBBING while her friend was patting her back and comforting her, and she stayed like that for soooo long me and my cousin were wondering wtf was wrong
and then when gw would pass by, her friend would try to get his attention and point out the sobbing jgpd as if trying to guilt him and imply he was the reason for this/he should comfort her, and he looked very confused and worried but made a sorry face and apologizing hands 🙏 to her as she continued to cry in front of the barricade and she stayed crying even afterwards....
the behavior exhibited by the fan was truly insane at the time and i felt bad for gw, but i feel even worse now knowing she was doing all that just bc he took a selfie with a different fan on the other side of the stage??? huh???😭
some of these serial fansign attendees become super obsessive and parasocial to the extreme and begin to want, demand, and expect more and more from their fave bc they spend so much and see them so often
may delete this but i think it gives some nuance and highlights just how unhealthy the dynamic can become when u have a top spending fan who comes to a bunch of ur fansigns/fancalls/events and begins to place super excessive expectations on u, all while u are expected to try to keep them happy