Yall be so scared to stand alone and go against popular narratives. There's a bunch of bird brain followers on this app. So just remember social media is driven by algorithms and echo chambers rather than objective truth. Always speak your mind and fuck the mob dynamics
@Aduradara61049 Because we want sex and men are dumb lol because I’ve done this and honestly, if I don’t trust you enough for you to come over to my place, we should not be fucking at all
@___Capri@niya2you And there’s nothing wrong with that either. If you a woman with no kids. A nigga with kids shouldn’t be a consideration for you, as you can most def do better.
@___Capri@niya2you I’m just speaking from experience of being out in the real world as a dad. There are a lot amazing women who will only date you in certain capacity due to you having a child already. “My first child needs to be his first child” type of timing
I say this all the time IRL.. dates are for women you actually like and want to be your girl. If you just need pussy, just fuck with SWs on the low and get to know women you actually like without sex on the table so you can actually read her 1/2
Being a provider is great because you control the dynamic and pace of the relationship! If she isn’t doing what you want after a month or two just leave and do it all over again
Same thing for women too. Women measure how much they like you by “access” if she isn’t letting you in her place, fucking you raw, telling you things she’s shameful about, etc. she doesn’t like you at all and you’re being used
Do the girlies know that men show they like you by commitment and constantly spending money on you.
If he isn’t taking you out regularly and talking about commitment most of the time. It’s not actually an option, you’re just being used for pussy
No I wouldn't have. At 34, I had a hot, 6'4" 27 year old repeatedly giving me ultimatums to commit.
If anything I had too many options. I would have hundreds of matches. I would keep a rotating list of 10 ranked prospects.
At 35, after a breakup with a guy who admitted just lying the whole time, I was going on 5 dates a week and my standards were not high. I did actually go out with a 53 year old but the sex was terrible so I bounced. The guys who did finally want to date me seriously were the hottest ones and my age. I fell for one but then freaked out over a perceived dealbreaker because I was scared to get hurt again.
I never have lacked options. The problem is figuring out if men are real options or just wasting my time.
Since 36, I have been telling guys I do not want to date unless they are looking for marriage and kids. Every guy says he is down. I even had a whole contract at one point.
I am now 40 and my friend of 6 years told me he had been into me this whole time. I said I do not want to date except for marriage and kids.
He said our kids would be supermodels who look like me. He had remembered so many details about me over the years and had saved a bunch of candids he took that I didn't even know about from when we met.
I believed him. Honestly at this point I think he was genuine and that I screwed up by being pushy and then kind of an asshole, as people have explained.
There is still no lack of options, and if I go to a bar and walk around it's going to be the hottest guys who talk to me not the other way around. But I apparently have to assume most are just liars and fuckboys.
I also do not like older men. I do prefer younger and I reject double standards about this. Women have just as much right to choose what we like as men do and should be able to trust that men trying to date us are not just fuckboys lying. Honestly I think the young ones are less likely to be so. Any guy single and going for younger women at 55 is probably sexist and just going to keep trying to go for younger women. 🤮