Abby Opel

Love and relationship coach 🏹💌🌹Healing trauma, pathways, and broken bridges. Find Love, find God, find your true self along the way.

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This work has taken shape slowly.

The Architecture of Union is not a quick fix.
It is a guided return to inner order, safety, and mature love.

If you’re ready to move beyond insight and into restoration,
you’re welcome to explore the program on my website.

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Every sensation is leading you back into deeper connection with yourself, deeper capacity, and deeper understanding.

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Most women settle in relationships because they are tired and frustrated of searching, while they haven’t been searching with the thing that will show them truth and love, their hearts.

Join The Architecture of Union to unearth your heart, awaken its true and deepest senses

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So much of what we do is a dance around the room, unlike a starting and ending point. Constantly reminding ourselves of what we’ve learned requires an open heart. It requires us to be able to have the capacity and the growth and the respect of our journey to remember.

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or in the right direction.

When outside influences start to shift your perspective ask yourself: Does this move me closer to love, or convince me to run away.

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We must acknowledge the distraction and use our discernment in times when noise is loudest. When the pull to pin problems on the situation are strong. You may in a space of transformation, of desire, of frustration with being stagnant or not moving fast enough…

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Owning, embodying, truly living with passion as an integrated part of you let’s all of the elements that you desire be a part of you, be a part of who you are, not something that you use.

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You’ve felt it, you’ve seen it, you’ve wanted to own it. Really own it.

The seductress pulls out the passion card as a tactic, the queen has passion running through her body.

The princess only shows passion when she’s appeased, the queen shows it as an invitation.

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More everyday, we will become love, not without shaping, but that’s something we are truly made for, to be shaped.

Choose to be shaped.

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“Being Love”. The words have no struggle to them. Once said they are effortless, so light, as if they carry an unmentioned truth that this is the most natural thing in the universe.

It’s not easy to be the struggle that stands between ourselves and this truth.

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To take responsibility, to know we must tear down and rebuild, to know that we have to work for what is the most effortless and desired thing that exists.

Today, exhale deeper, release a little bit longer, open to love.

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And you release yourself from the roles you’ve fallen into, the patterns of tasks that have become your to-do list, and instead you become ALIVE. In the truest sense.

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The range and capacity to embody every texture of life that is available to you is just past the threshold of releasing what you hold onto. What you think of as YOU. What you’ve labeled yourself as, what patterns you’ve defined your life by.…

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When you open up the capacity in your soul you give yourself the room to hold all of these textures. To bring all of them into life whenever you desire them. You find the security to own all of them, to know they are available to you.

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Have you ever felt something so deeply that you just wanted to shut your maiden in a closet forever?

Most of us end up dismissing this part of us. She feels too deeply, she wants too much, she can’t ever make up her mind.

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How did I miss that? My name, in a paragraph, of one of the best books I’ve ever read, describing a in very graphic detail an act of pure passion and excitement.
This is why this book is at the top of the core reading list.

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What are you shaping?

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Many women were taught to equate being relied on with being loved.

Being needed feels important.
Being desired feels restful.

When you are needed, you are valued for what you provide.
When you are desired, you are met for who you are.

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This kind of strength is survival