I once asked my mom why she divorced my dad. She told me, “I was sick all week, and one morning your dad woke me up asking what I was making for breakfast. I told him I felt awful and needed sleep. He made breakfast for himself and never asked if I wanted anything.” It wasn’t the breakfast, she said. It was realizing that if she didn’t take care of herself, nobody would notice. That stayed with me. I realized people rarely leave because of one terrible moment. Sometimes they leave because of a thousand tiny moments that quietly convince them they’re alone.
@damnidc__ It seems the small oversights kept happening until that moment, when she realized that if she didn’t look after herself, no one else would notice.
Fui a la boda de mi mejor amigo. Entre vuelo, hotel y traje me gasté 900€, y le regalé 150€ en un sobre. Una semana después, a la vuelta de su luna de miel, me escribió por WhatsApp: "¿Puedo preguntarte una cosa sin que te ofendas?"
@Xaviololo Nunca entenderé la costumbre española de hacer una celebración, invitar gente y esperar que ellos la paguen
Me parece absurdo, si no puedes costearla no la hagas