ngl, one of the harder parts of the Making Friends adventure has been the multiple times I’ve facilitated parties with people I want to be friends with, and they become friends with each other but never invite me to hang
glad that worked out for y’all. I’ll go kms now
@danesburch I feel like I’m actually pretty chill? 🥺 I’d to text for a bit maybe once a week and see you at least once a month and tell each other about our lives. How is this impossible?
I have not found a way to make this not hurt my feelings. I am constitutionally quite good at being happy for other people and don’t want to be a desperate “um why wasn’t I invited?!?! freak”
and yet. why am I never invited? you all said you were too busy
Would people get really mad at me if I say I think New Girl is THE millennial sitcom? I'm re-watching it now, and I genuinely think it is
It's a time capsule of Obama-era optimism, millennials' wobbly post-recession launch, and the rise of smart phones. It's a show that fundamentally believes people are good and things will get better and cringe is fine and love is real. (I miss 2014)
Have gotten kind of really absolutely obsessed with this graphic designer’s rebranding skills: the handcrafted, character-driven feel of what she creates is utterly charming to me
Watching this with a big ol smile on my face. Never seen her piano playing hands with the ring on before 🥹
I love living inside her lyrical worlds, so this year of her giving interviews about her songwriting has been fun for me. More more more please
I’m so here for the Taylor Swift Legacy Solidifying Summer of Love Victory Lap
I’ve been rooting for her with her lyrics running through my mind since I was a kid with braces listening to my iPod Nano on the school bus, and I’m certainly not gonna stop now!!!
Begging you all to stop looking at the lives of the top 5% of young attractive wealthy women and thinking that that’s just what it’s like to be a woman.
@jasonc_nc Ehhhh local government gets pretty involved in development: tax incentives to lure the companies, planning reviews, utilities, etc etc etc
Different group and incentives, but people are right to notice what their local governance prioritizes
We're going to have to wrestle with this in architecture land pretty soon... ai renderings of potential projects are rapidly becoming the norm because the marketing of a project often precedes it being awarded to a firm to actually design
That means they've always been kind of slapdash (often, firms don't get paid to produce them), but they're about to get really wild and potentially very divorced from reality
Will that matter to a public that doesn't know what they're looking at anyway? I'm not sure. Curious to find out! Perhaps people have already been trained to see "real" renderings as slightly make believe because of the changes that happen between the design development renderings and what actually gets built after the client faces the realities of project costs
The only trip we’ve taken with another couple was like this, and it was some of the most fun I’ve ever had. We took a few activities/classes together, had a meal together ≈ every other day, and otherwise bopped around on our own. A DREAM. I love framing it as parallel play
As someone who vacations with friends a lot, I've uncovered the ideal way to put an itinerary together. Let me introduce you to the "parallel play" vacation, where, basically, nobody plans anything together and everyone basically does whatever they want.
@2sentiero@StatisticUrban Oh you mistake me. I think he would be a solid candidate and a great president. I do not think he wins the nomination fighting for the particular coalition / vibe outlined in the OP
I haven’t journaled in a long time, but I was always writing for some future audience anyway. Utterly unsurprising that I moved the whole endeavor to the Internet as soon as that was feasible
tbh, I might one day regret becoming more reserved as I’ve aged
friends who journal, are you writing to yourself or your future self or an imaginary audience or are you genuinely able to completely separate yourself from the concept of anything you write ever being read