My lil sis just turned 21. We were having a convo & I said something along the lines of “they’re better than that” & she said, “no, ppl are what they show u. That’s your optimism.” I’m stunned because my optimism is a “positive” quality. But maybe it creates delusions too.
Essentially your 20s is just understanding that you can’t plan your way through life like you think. It’s a long unlearning that control & staying the same isn’t the key to life, but the ability to constantly evolve through changes.
If anyone wants to go to a pumpkin patch, carve pumpkins, fright fest at sixflags, or halloween fest at castle of Muskogee, I will gladly be your friend and go with you👻