Everyone is slowly dying inside;
- Some stopped taking photos.
- Some lost interest in new clothes.
- Some hate love now.
- Some got used to loneliness.
- Some stopped meeting friends.
- Some stopped comparing.
Some just accepted what they couldn’t achieve.
The same people who once dreamed big are now just pushing through days.
Check on your people.
Not everyone is okay.
AS A FATHER, TEACH YOUR SON:
1) Never beg for love from anyone.
2) Your word is your bond; keep it even when it hurts.
3) Discipline > Motivation.
4) Never let money control you.
5) Protect your family, your name, and your peace at all costs.
6) A real man takes full responsibility, no excuses.
7) Your body is your temple; train it like a warrior.
8) Learn to be comfortable being alone with your thoughts.
9) Never trust easily but stay loyal to those who earn it.
10) Fail hard, fail fast, but never stop learning from it.
Be the kind of man you wish you had when you were growing up.
Teach him these things, and he won’t just survive life; he will conquer it.
Signs of A Loyal Woman
1.Her phone is an open book
2.She loves that thing you do every day.
3. You're a part of her inner circle.
4.She often talks about future together.
5. You've built up a healthy trust
6.She's never cheated before
7.She's there for you when times are tough
8.Your relationship is a priority to her.
9.She supports you in everything you do.
10.Her friends all tell you she loves you,
11.She's ready to build a family with you
12.She has motherly instincts.
As a man,
1. Make money.
2. Buy assets
3. Get rich.
4. Spend time with family
5. Keep it quiet and enjoy your life
People hate seeing others doing better than them.
Keep your finances private.
Men should develop the habit of drinking hibiscus tea (sobolo/zobo/bissap) frequently. It treat and prevents
-prostate cancer
-prostate enlargement
-Boost sperm count
-Erectile dysfunction
-low libido
-fatigue
-kidney stone
-High blood pressure
-Aiding weight loss
-Premature ejaculation.
-Reduce blood sugar.
- colon health
-good for liver and kidney health
_ it serves as an antioxidants.
You can prepare it at home. If you are married, Please ensure you drink it with your wife.
As a man,
1. When you meet young people - INSPIRE THEM.
2. When you meet children - EDUCATE THEM.
3. When you meet old people - HELP THEM.
4. When you meet wise people - STUDY THEM.
5. When you meet leaders - HONOUR THEM.
6. When you meet foolish people - AVOID THEM.
7. When you meet humble people - TREASURE THEM.
8. When you meet arrogant people - IGNORE THEM.
9. When you meet gracious people - EMULATE THEM.
10. When you meet aspirational people - ELEVATE THEM.
11. When you meet strong people - SUPPORT THEM.
12. When you meet godly people - BLESS THEM.
13. When you meet elderly people - RESPECT THEM.
14. When you meet weak people - STRENGTHEN THEM.
15. When you meet hardworking people - ENCOURAGE THEM.
16. When you meet kind people - ESTEEM THEM.
17. When you meet Honest people -
PROMOTE THEM.
18. When you meet virtuous people - REWARD THEM.
19. When you meety evil people - EVADE THEM.
20. And in all situation “ Watch, Pray and wish everyone well.
Love is what starts relationships. Understanding is what sustains them. Attraction creates the spark. But learning how your partner thinks, reacts, communicates, and experiences life is what determines whether that spark becomes something lasting.
The way to your man's heart:
Fix him food he loves
Be available sexually
Smile at him often
Stop quarreling with him
Don't try to control or change him
Show kindness to him
Dress and act feminine
Show him reverence (Eph. 5:33)
Submit to his leadership
Dwell on the good in him
A marriage without sex is not just frustrating, it becomes biologically dangerous.
When intimacy disappears, the connection starts disappearing with it. Sex is not only physical, it soothes, it bonds.
It is how spouses keep choosing each other. When affection dies, marriage starts feeling like two roommates paying bills. The goodbye hug stops, the reach across the bed stops, silence replaces warmth, communication weakens, trust erodes, and desire dissappears.
A small issue becomes resentment, insecurity, and emotional distance. Here is the truth people avoid. When a man feels undesired, he stops trying. When a woman feels unvalued, she pulls away.
So, couples should have sex very often to maintain their marriage.
A wise wife knows when to speak and when to step back.
Not every decision needs your immediate opinion.
Sometimes saying “I trust you” is the most powerful thing you can do.
Smile at one person = Kindness
Smile at everyone = Character
Smile through pain = Strength
Smile without reason = Peace
Smile when misunderstood = Grace
Smile under pressure = Composure
Smile at a stranger = Connection
Smile at yourself = Self Love
Smile through failure = Resilience
Smile as a default = Joy
Smile when you want to cry = Courage
Smile at those who doubted you = Dignity
Smile and mean it every time = Authenticity
Tiping your office security N1k for buying your lunch, is not you doing him a favour. He earned it. If e easy, stand up from your seat and go get the food yourself. Calculate the financial cost of the stress of going the distance to get the food and back.
If you want to do him a favour, give him money for no reason. Someone would do you a favour, but you would see yourslf as the one doing them a favour because you earn higher than them and don't respect them.
If you send money to your colleague that does the same work with you and asked them to please get you lunch on their way back from wherever they were going, you see it as them doing you a favour because you respect them. You don't see it as a favour done to you when it is done by the office security or cleaner because you don't respect them. If you treat these people well and respect them, they will be happy to do things for you. You've become entitled to their help that you now expect them to use their money to fund your lunch.
My security does errands for me, and every errand comes with a tip. That is thank you for doing this because it is not his job. Favour is when I give him money for no reason which happens often or when he has special needs and makes a request and I give him money. You need to start respecting people as human beings, not by how much they earn. This thing is a common problem in our society.
How to claim your unclaimed dividends in Nigeria (official SEC process)
Step 1: Search the SEC portal
Go to the SEC Unclaimed Dividends Search Portal:
https://t.co/iP9RxV8rSi
(or https://t.co/duHDsNI8lj)
Step 2: Enter your name
Type your full name exactly as it appears on your share certificate. Try different combinations: first and last name, with and without your middle name.
Step 3: Note the Registrar
If any dividends appear, note the Registrar listed against them. That’s who holds your money.
Step 4: Download the right form
Get the e-Dividend Mandate Form for that specific Registrar here:
https://t.co/69cyidLyVM
Step 5: Fill and attach your documents
Complete the form and attach:
- A passport photograph
- A valid ID (NIN, driver’s licence, etc.)
- Your bank details
Get it verified or stamped by your bank if required.
Step 6: Submit
Send the completed form to the Registrar by email, their portal, or office, or submit it through your bank.
What happens next
Once processed, the money is paid directly into your bank account, and all future dividends come to you electronically.
One safety rule
Do this only on the official SEC site to avoid scams. Some Registrars have their own portals (Coronation, Africa Prudential, and others), but start with SEC.
If it’s for a late relative
Claiming as next of kin needs extra documents, like a letter of administration or probate.
That money is yours. Go and get it.