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@Tommyslayed People put far too much stock in what one or two medical professionals have said to them and completely ignore consensus and lived experiences.
I’m sorry mgen affected you so badly, hopefully one day we’ll get to a place where we actually oust those who are repeatedly unsafe.
Black people can fuck each other on camera and white and black people can fuck on camera and make the focus human beings fucking on camera and not some weird peoples racial fetish jack off material.
The directors and performers who don't want to work with you because you've spoken up about abuse are people that you do not want to work with.
There is no company that is worth compromising your integrity for.
There's no person that is worth compromising your integrity for.
Take in all the information you get from others and file it in your brain.
Make your own choices about who you want to work with.
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I don't work with new men anymore unless I've gotten to know them well enough that I feel comfortable or there is someone else in the room that I trust would have my back if something went awry.
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Your safety is paramount.
There is no opportunity worth compromising on your safety or comfort.
If you get a bad feeling, listen to it.
It's never too late to stop and leave or to cancel.
Trust your intuition.
Listen to the way your body feels around people. Often your body recognizes danger before your brain processes it.
Have someone you can call if you need help or to talk through something that feels off.
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You don't have to work with other people at all.
You can be in this industry successfully as a solo performer.
Your own happiness and personal goals matter more than recognition or titles.
It's incredibly difficult to disseminate safety information through the industry.
Please always warn your friends and coworkers about unsafe people.
It's not dramatic.
It's not unprofessional.
It's simply necessary.
We cannot rely on anyone to protect us except ourselves.
If we band together and refuse to work with abusive people we can push them out of the industry.
We can protect the next generation if we are willing to stick to our values.
It's incredibly difficult to disseminate safety information through the industry.
Please always warn your friends and coworkers about unsafe people.
It's not dramatic.
It's not unprofessional.
It's simply necessary.
We cannot rely on anyone to protect us except ourselves.
If we band together and refuse to work with abusive people we can push them out of the industry.
We can protect the next generation if we are willing to stick to our values.
The adult industry has a responsibility to protect the people who work in it. For too long, known predators, abusers, and people with histories of harmful behavior have been allowed to move from set to set with little to no accountability.
It’s time to have a serious conversation about mandatory background checks for anyone working in the industry—performers, producers, directors, agents, and crew alike. Every other profession that involves trust, vulnerability, and close physical interaction has safeguards in place. Why should ours be any different?
The vast majority of adult performers are professionals who deserve a safe workplace. We shouldn’t have to wonder whether the person we’re about to film with has a history of violence, sexual assault, or predatory behavior. Basic screening could help prevent dangerous individuals from gaining access to performers and reduce the risk of repeat offenders simply changing companies and continuing to work.
This isn’t about creating barriers for good people. It’s about keeping sexual predators out of our industry and making performer safety the priority it should have always been.
If we truly care about protecting performers and supporting real victims, then accountability can’t be optional. A safer industry starts with refusing to give predators a place to hide.
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some of the men who purport that they are industry "professionals" -
are actually just rapists who found an easier & more vulnerable pool of women to prey on while getting paid for it ...
fr and we should start calling those men for for what they are
✨ predators/rapists ✨
People will be like don’t hate the player hate the game, and they are playing “be a dog shit human that takes advantage of the people around me” the game
Nah I’m gonna hate both