gay culture is getting a crush on
- a girl who likes s1 else
- straight girls
- a girl living 5000 miles away
- middle aged celebrities who aren't gay and are out of your league
- girls who are older/younger than you
and if it's an appropriate crush, ɴᴇᴠᴇʀ ᴛᴇʟʟɪɴɢ ᴛʜᴇᴍ