Dari kisah temank cowoku ini, aku belajar bahwa salah satu bentuk cinta yang paling langka di dunia modern ini adalah cinta yang dipasangkan dengan tanggung jawab. Menginginkan seorang perempuan itu hal yang sangat mudah. Tapi secara sadar menyiapkan diri agar pantas dan siap menyambutnya? Di situlah komitmen laki-laki yang sesungguhnya dimulai
Whenever I catch myself not reading things completely, I remember anti-intellectualism is on the rise, literacy is in decline, and I don’t want to be a VICTIM!
The bigger conversation here is that this woman clearly started facing multiple family and economic challenges that makes living in banana island clearly above her means. With 15-30m, she can get a flat in lekki 1 or even VI, duplex in Dolphin Ikoyi, etc. Even if she goes to court, she may lose because she's lived there for 5yrs without increment so the landlord is well within his right to increase to prevailing market rates, especially with ample notice. Almost all her arguments are emotional arguments, while the conversation is a business one. It's why I've always insisted on adjusting to live within your capabilities. It'll never make sense to me to think staining your image to be crying online about your banana island rent, to people who mostly live in Iyana Ipaja or oworonshoki, is a better option than simply adjusting your lifestyle to your current means.