EniBaby💕

Vivre sa vie pas à pas.

[🥷 @_iamhabeeb]

Oversleeping is my go-to coping mechanism. If I’m sleeping more than usual, I’m probably going through something

[EniBaby💕 @Bornin_HD]

Lmaoo almost had me 😂

[Jose @Jose90491864]

Self-respect is propaganda to keep you away from the love of your life

[cee @1ovesickkk]

sometimes i feel like im only meant for myself and no one will ever understand me deeply

[Lungi @LuungiChi]

Parents pocket watch gosh. 😭😭

[coco @Cocobby02]

The older I get the more the break ups rock me.

[Biff @biffredeemed]

The ROI on keeping your mouth shut is extremely high

[Poetry✨ @bubbles_debs]

Need to join an adult debate club or something. I need to speak more. Words are being jumbled up in my mouth and I don’t like it.

[Lisa @Ada0lisa]

My own is that, everything is a situationship until you get married.

[D3ra @pascald3ra]

thank you very much for this question. I, infact, have a lot to say about this.

[EniBaby💕 @Bornin_HD]

So many things to buy, such little argent 😩😩😩
Mon Dieu, s’il vous plait 😩😩😩

[Jeru Global Logistics @Alagbegiol]

@nollywould you go wake up by 3am just to say chaii
then go back to bed

[big chief @TheVioletOJ]

I’ve made peace with the fact that i may never find genuine love or get married.

Now it’s Work, make money, enjoy life and nurture close friendships.

Lmao.

[egó bèké @luchymoe]

Whatever love I gave you is yours to keep

[Jade Osiberu @jadeosiberu]

I know a number of people who didn’t marry their “spec” but are in the healthiest marriages I know. Their spec was typically whatever was culturally deemed to be at the apex of the attractiveness pyramid when they were growing up. For a lot of guys in my generation, it was the music video “vixens” from the late 90s/early 2000s Hip & R&B music videos with ‘coke bottle figures’ and or light skinned eurocentric features. When it’s time to find a partner for the very serious endeavor of sharing a life with, that “spec” is simply inadequate as a measure of compatibility and that’s understandable. The foolishness though is communicating it as though their partner somehow didn’t measure up to their “spec” instead of simply admitting that the idea of their spec was stupid all along and a young boy’s lack of wisdom of what makes a good life partner.

Communicating publicly or even privately to your partner that they weren’t your spec to begin with may seem harmless, after-all you’re just being honest. But subconsciously, it’s an ego trip for you who “settled” and for your the partner, it’s a chip they will always carry on their shoulder that to you, they aren’t quite enough. They’re missing something you had always longed for, so much so that you still consider it to be your “spec”. It’s an unnecessary mind fuck and a cruel thing to say about somebody who is sharing a life with you. No matter how flowery you are with the compliments that come after. You’ve already knocked them down several pegs.

If the point is to say your spec changed then talk about the stupidity of having a spec to begin with. Because I’ve never heard anyone in these situations talk about character attributes being their spec, it’s always superficial stuff. Or speak about how meeting your partner opened your eyes to what true beauty is. Speak in ways that elevate and affirm your partner.

[EniBaby💕 @Bornin_HD]

Constantly hungry but never knowing what to eat is absolute torture 😩

[Blaize @Rxblaize]

Temu, because you want to give me 4 free items, you want me to invite my whole community?
Do you want to kill me?

[Hauwa 🌟🌬 @Hauwa_L]

Elections are next year. At least do oju aye and rescue the kids so you can use it to campaign. Do something.

[EniBaby💕 @Bornin_HD]

Tears and sleep are actually mutually inclusive

[EniBaby💕 @Bornin_HD]

Lmaooo too apt