Acts of service men are dangerously attractive.
Fixing problems, making sure you’ve eaten, charging your phone, carrying your things… that’s romance to me.
I also only like to be around niggas who pay all the bills in they household. Reason being, ion want a nigga side eyeing me when I’m doing sumn nice for my girl talmbout sumn “Couldn’t be me” nigga I know.
No I fuck for love and pleasure. I don't just give out my body because I'm horny, I can handle that myself. I only sleep with people who love me and take care of me emotionally, physically, and financially
But if you wanna have casual sex and give out pussy just because you're hot in the pants, go ahead 🤷🏾♀️
The most exhausting, unspoken burden on men in modern dating is that they are expected to be the sole architects of the relationship. A man is expected to initiate the first text, plan the dates, fund the experiences, orchestrate the proposal, and constantly drive the romance forward. We have completely normalized a culture where a woman’s mere presence is considered her "effort." The absolute second a man gets tired of being the only engine keeping the relationship moving and asks for equal romantic effort, he is instantly accused of being "inconsistent" or "low effort." We demand 50/50 modern equality, but aggressively enforce traditional male burdens the exact moment romance is involved.
Once i mentally separate myself from a situation you'll never get the same me. I'm somebody you gotta do right by the first time because my mental detachment doesn't allow reconnection. Especially because at my age its hard to make sense out of another grown person trying to play
I evaluate my behavior every night. I will literally be in the shower like "I didn't like how I responded to that today but tomorrow I will be better".