The easiest way to get hold of your man and bring out the best in him is to let him feel completely in control. Watch him unconsciously relinquish that power to you. One thing many women don’t realize early enough is that femininity is power.
Life becomes easier when you embrace your femininity, carry yourself in a soft, princess-like manner, and allow your man to treat you as such. Challenging a man or forcing equality in every aspect is not going to favor you the way you think it will. More often than not, it only saddles you with more responsibilities.
Most times when people say a woman is controlling her husband, look closely and you will usually find a woman who respects her husband, treats him like a king, adores him, and clearly lets him know that he is in charge. In return, the man naturally makes her an integral part of his decision-making process.
You see many men refuse to conclude a deal until they speak to their wives. In fact, “I will get back to you after speaking to my wife” has become a very common statement among married men.
A submissive woman has the world to gain.
I might actually be the only guy who has never asked a woman her body count in my life. I don’t think any woman will answer that sincerely.
The answer is always “two or three,” and one of them is usually with a man that forced himself on her. J. Cole even mentioned this in “Nobody’s Perfect”: “she say she only fucked like four-five niggas, so you know you gotta multiply by three.”
Again, as long as a woman is not a virgin, asking that question is largely inconsequential. What exactly are you trying to achieve? To know if she has been “ran through”? With how judgmental we men can be, I don’t even expect honesty on that question anyway.
I also find it disrespectful asking a woman her body count. There are things that, if I feel they are important to a relationship, I will observe and figure out on my own. Instead of asking for body count, you can look at her dating history and work with the assumption that she likely slept with people she had serious relationships with.
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