We invite evil by failing to set boundaries.
Cultures that were too warm and accommodating were among the the first to be colonized and last to be liberated.
#boundaries#coaching#therapy
❌ People-pleasing is motivated by fear of disapproval and of losing someone or something in a relationship.
Whereas
✅ Kindness is a free choice motivated by a desire to uplift the other without any fear of disapproval or losing.
I am doing a Free 2 Day Live Healathon
23rd-24th March 2024
Time 5 pm IST
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Real strength is found in being able to connect, receive help , give help and in the warmth of a loving, supportive boundary healthy community.
Your Healing Guide
Ajay Almeida
Say this the next time you come across courageous people going through a difficult time
Whichever is relevant for the situation.
- When is a good time for me to help you with your kids?
- Can I help you with a meal tonight?
- Do you want to talk or need a distraction?
Here's what you must never say!
"I admire how strong you are"
Because being alone in the face of a divorce/ bad health/ financial problems/ children's hospitalisation/
is what no human being wants to be proud of.
This so-called strongness is false.
You cannot build authentic relationships while consumed with people-pleasing.
People-pleasing leads to attracting manipulative, toxic and Narcissistic personalities because they are always on the lookout for someone soft, submissive and without boundaries.
#buildwithajay
🎙️ "The People Pleaser's Checklist" by Ajay Almeida🎙️
Are you tired of putting everyone else's needs before your own? Ready to break free from the cycle of people-pleasing and reclaim your power?
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"Empaths and highly sensitive individuals possess a unique gift: the ability to deeply understand and connect with others. Remember, your sensitivity is your strength."
Brene Brown