My fav thing about Sex And The City is how a show about 4 well off white women navigating love manages to be relatable for everyone regardless of background. It really shows how love and dating is just complicated for anyone. At some point you’re also every character. Timeless.
Never everrrrrr be ashamed of having a big and/or empathetic heart. Love is an infinite source and so is kindness. What people choose to do with the energy you naturally put out shouldn’t be your concern. Be that person anyways