Lying to someone to gain access to them is predatory behavior, especially when the deception is meant to bypass their boundaries, manipulate their choices, or undermine informed consent.
Lying about someone’s character and making false accusations just to ruin their reputation is genuinely creepy behavior. Imagine being so obsessed with destroying someone that you’re willing to make things up about them.
I'm in love with this quote
"if you don't let people experience the consequences of their actions towards u, you will remain a safe place for their worst behavior"
If someone gaslights you, denies your reality, lies to your face, hides things, and secretly sabotages your life, you will eventually become anxious, hypervigilant, angry, and deeply distressed. That is a normal, healthy human reaction to an abusive environment.
Men are not attractive anymore and im not even talking about looks. they are so disrespectful, want princess treatment, can't communicate, can't connect emotionally, immature and more.. is a complete turn off.
A lot of men today are losing relationships over behaviors their fathers got away with for years. they were raised to believe women would tolerate disrespect, betrayal, and control and still stay. but a lot of women inherited a different lesson: “what my mother had to endure, i refuse to.”
normalize giving up on people. no more seeing the best in them, no more excusing their behavior. accept them as they are and reject them. If they wanted to appreciate you, they would've already.
When someone knows you're going through one of the hardest periods of your life and still chooses to disrespect you or add to your stress, that's a different kind of CRUELTY. Hurting you while knowing how vulnerable you are is intentional, and that kind of betrayal changes how you see them forever.