@n0tfourlong@laurynflint And most often my reaction is taken as support for the other side...NO, I'm just saying your criticism should be in the right direction...against policies and ideologies...similarly if a guy is an asshole, call out his behaviour not his appearance
@n0tfourlong@laurynflint I often see this in political discourse too...when my friends(who agree with me politically) keep trolling the politicians from the other party for their looks...my usual response..."really? You want to focus on their looks..? Is that why we're opposing them?"
@lilseoltang@laurynflint He doesn't have to call her...she's not saying she would date him either...she's saying the rejection should have been polite without humiliating the other person....basic human kindness...and she's clearly the better human being
@ErinDusty@dvorstone "She needs to sleep with"? Who said that?...the point is when she says things like that the man might lose interest ...not that he will then demand she sleeps with him wether she likes it or not..
@TheBigGoofah But why are we acting as if cold approaches are the only way..? U could easily cut out all these guessing games and anxieties and safety concerns about being shamed online by..just not cold approaching...u can still approach women after u already have a social equation with them
@CaseyDoe8@foolmealex 🙏 please read through all of the thread...I've explained what problem I'm talking about...can't write the same thing again multiple times
@Marybeyin@southevropa@Wizarab10 Random strangers online adds no value....as long as she has actual support system in her real life...she doesn't have to share her dating life here on the internet
@CaseyDoe8@foolmealex Correct...so what's the solution?...ensure that labour laws are strictly followed that people are only working 8 hours a day.. that they have work life balance...they have time to socialise outside work....u can't have it both ways..
@mishradidi Everyone is single? Lol...barely anyone is single forever....so either people who are single are just the ones who has not found their partner yet, or the really tiny minority who end up being incels or femcels(again a very tiny minority)..not everyone is single eitherway 😂
@schiz04renic If you're annoyed by men, that's normal...as long as annoyance doesn't turn to hate...
See, at the end of the day both genders want each other, but is different enough that we don't "fully get" each other..that combination obviously will cause annoyance 😂, but it's alright
@Kgadi_yaMoloto I mean no matter how much u mock, they aren't gonna chase when they know that the risk of being called a "creep" for misreading signals exist, post all the memes u want..all of us built this new world, now no point whining about men adapting..all we can do is adapt too
@isengrimm3@foolmealex Yeah..but mostly people meet only other people in their own division...in stressful work environments....especially where the work hours are long..
The solution is much simpler..ensure working hours are designed in a way to treat ur employees as human, very simple
@JamelleCooper@foolmealex "company doesn't and shouldn't care about what you do with your personal life."
I am telling you they do care....that there's a policy around it....so i dono how to respond when u say "company doesn't care.." ...genuinely confused
@hcetamd@entity279@foolmealex Yeah sure..but my point is if you're gonna do that...ensure that people only work 8 hours a day...u can't have both lol 🤣
@irlminii Ask but in a way that doesn't kill the mood..maybe playfully... but still ask....what most women don't know is...erection happens for reasons other than arousal too....for sure, in that context it's probably arousal...but still, asking is better
@satakshi_ai And i respect yours too...infact people who don't like kids should never be advised to have kids..that's how we create bad parents...
Ideally only people excited as hell to have kids should have kids...that's better for society.
So each to their own 👍