It’s my beautiful and lovely colleague turned sister birthday, she got an amazing heart, goal getter, amazing cook and a family oriented person
Nne silver and gold I don’t have but from the bottom of my heart I pray God divinely settle you maritally, increase you in aspect of your life and continue to bless all the works of your hands
@DaezeSignatures
It’s my beautiful and lovely colleague turned sister birthday, she got an amazing heart, goal getter, amazing cook and a family oriented person
Nne silver and gold I don’t have but from the bottom of my heart I pray God divinely settle you maritally, increase you in aspect of your life and continue to bless all the works of your hands
@DaezeSignatures
I remember the first day I met my husband 😭
I billed him on our first date.
He paid for my Uber.
I ate food worth over 100k and he still got me takeaways.
A week later, I billed him for a wig.
He came through too 😂
Before meeting him, I had already decided I was done being the “understanding girlfriend.”
I wasn’t going to stress myself trying to earn love anymore.
Whoever wanted to stay would stay.
For the first 2 months of dating, I didn’t cook for him.
I didn’t do his laundry.
I didn’t clean his house.
Yet within those same 2 months:
He introduced me to his family.
He met mine.
We did our introduction.
It was only after that I started doing the little things naturally.
We got married in the 3rd month.
Today, we’re 6 years married with kids and I have zero regrets ❤️
The funny thing is that before him, I had been in relationships where I was cooking, washing clothes, cleaning houses, doing everything imaginable…
And they still left.
That’s when I learned something:
What works for one woman may not work for another.
Doing the most won’t make someone stay.
Doing the least won’t make the right person leave.
Sometimes, the people who want you make it easy.
And the people who don’t… no amount of sacrifice will convince them.
Who will stay, will stay.
i texted her, "how was your day today?" and she sent me a 7 minute voice note telling me everything..
and that basically sums up the kind of person i want by my side. stop normalizing disinterest.
I found a very beautiful Bible verse.❤️
NAHUM 1 :9
There will come a time when that problem won’t bother you again, not because you forgot, but because God ended it once and for all.
Sis to sis, may God send that good
Man your way
May He open your eyes to recognize him
May God supply enough to help you both be together
May God help both your families align and agree to your union
May He bless your union with every good fruit
Amen
Unpopular opinion:
If you must have sex with someone you’re not married to, use condoms.
Don't let a man nut in you like there are no consequences attached.
Some of these men do not care about your health, your future, or what they may expose you to.
Protect yourself please.