To the gay men quietly afraid to say what they actually think:
You do not have to conform to every ideological trend just to appear compassionate or enlightened.
Youโre allowed to value masculinity.
Youโre allowed to want male-only spaces.
Youโre allowed to say โthis doesnโt align with me.โ
Having boundaries, preferences, and standards is not hate.
Not everyone belongs everywhere, and thatโs okay.