Your have parents but your man is taking care of your bills. You know within yourself that your parents can't do what he is doing. You see him sacrifice a lot for your happiness.
Instead of you to pray for him in private and thank him with heartfelt gratitude everyday, maintain the peace in the relationship with love and respect him, letting him know you see everything he does for you and you can't thank him enough.....
you would rather forment trouble and let him know it is a man's duty and his mates are doing it or even doing more.
Your father's mate are not doing it? Duty does not negate gratitude. Be grateful!
Mimi by the way ata ikifika leo I have to die, I die a happy man. I don't think there is something that a man has to do on this earth that I haven't done in my short life. I have absolutely enjoyed this damn ride bana.
Parenting has no manual. Drunks have raised priests, holy families have raised criminals. Engineers have raised academic dwarfs and peasant farmers have raised doctors. Parenting is not an easy task, donโt arrogantly opine on anotherโs child as you know not hw yours will turn out
Men,
Marriage is war.
It is a situation between a terrorist and a hostage.
You are the hostage.
You can lose some battles but never lose the war.
Be tactical, wise & ruthless.
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When you have the capacity please send your children to the best schools. Even if they don't perform well, you will be building their social capital by exposing them to good marriage partners, future business investors, excellent connections because that's what matters nowadays!