@laurainspaaace @MorganArnott@krystalknopf One thing I have noticed about all the people who "stand with Hedley" is that they NEVER seem to answer this question. I have asked it many times. Other questions/reasonable arguments I have made, too- they neverrrr get replies. Innnnterestinggg. The ignorance is astounding.
@jessica_p1981@jnmrie@sarah_poll@Beaglemama4@Hedleyonline (...continued) in their life saying "we can no longer be associated with you or support you" I would assume that they had seen some shit. If they absolutely knew that it couldn't possibly be true, then they would surely stand by them.
@jessica_p1981@jnmrie@sarah_poll@Beaglemama4@Hedleyonline (...continued) like many of the rest of us, that this is coming to light. They likely have seen this behaviour and now all of this coming to light is just confirming things for them. If my son, brother, husband, or friend had some of the most important people (continued...)
@jessica_p1981@jnmrie@sarah_poll@Beaglemama4@Hedleyonline (...continued) management and agent wouldn't have anything to worry about. They would trust that with the help of a good lawyer and good PR person this would all blow over quickly. The fact that both were so quick to drop them suggests they are not at all surprised (continued...)
@jessica_p1981@jnmrie@sarah_poll@Beaglemama4@Hedleyonline I know in the industry (not fans) starting talking and word started to get out. I am not sure if you are familiar with a band's relationship with their management and booking agents. If there was absolutely NO CHANCE IN HELL that they could've done this, the (continued...)
@jessica_p1981@jnmrie@sarah_poll@Beaglemama4@Hedleyonline (...continued) A lot of the stories I read had details eerily similar to a story that my friend told me over 10 years ago and more stories I continued to hear over the years. Not when people were posting things on twitter but when people (continued...)
@jessica_p1981@jnmrie@sarah_poll@Beaglemama4@Hedleyonline Well- I don't know anything about these fake accounts but do you have PROOF and FACTS that they are fake? Also... it sucks if there are people making fake accounts because it is distracting from the real ones amongst them. (continued...)
@jessica_p1981@jnmrie@sarah_poll@Beaglemama4@Hedleyonline It can be hard to "gather facts" even when these things are reported to the police instantly. If you are relying 100% on facts and "proof" then I would like you to provide specific proof that shows that none of these things happened.
@jessica_p1981@jnmrie@sarah_poll@Beaglemama4@Hedleyonline (...continued) AND most allegations were happening anonymously so those making them are not benefitting in any way whatsoever... I would be VERY sad, but VERY prone to believing the victim. Unfortunately, even IMMEDIATELY after these things happen, they can rarely be "proven".
@jessica_p1981@jnmrie@sarah_poll@Beaglemama4@Hedleyonline (...continued) other people in my life (close to me) had specifically told me about in the past (in this case I specifically remembered a story that a friend had told me about a very horrible experience she had with them at least 10 years ago)... (continued...)
@jessica_p1981@jnmrie@sarah_poll@Beaglemama4@Hedleyonline If my son, husband, brother, or friend was accused of MULTIPLE heinous acts, all including eerily similar details AND these acts were consistent with with concerning behaviour that I had personally witnessed and/or (continued...)
@lisakinsella How about they plan to discuss how they have violated people and broken the law? Instead of how they "let some people down"... that's a little half-assed. Also- why hasn't this new statement been released on the band's twitter/facebook to replace the first half-assed one?
@JoTheHoeDoe @BeckyMunro6 @Hedleyonline In a sea of people whose arguments are literally “I can’t imagine these guys doing this stuff- therefore it can’t be true” and “these girls just want attention (even though they are remaining anonymous)”.... I feel like there need to be voices of reason standing up for victims.
@JoTheHoeDoe @BeckyMunro6 @Hedleyonline I don’t think I’m being rude. And no I’m not willing to have an open discussion because with the information I have I feel I can be 99.9% sure that these allegations are true and these victims need people standing up for them.
@dreamingamo Also just SO SICK of seeing (firsthand) gross dudes in the music industry using their positions of power to take advantage of women. It is all too common for them to feel entitled to women’s bodies and not understand boundaries. The culture has to change.
@dreamingamo Thanks Amelia. This is one of those things where I typically take a backseat in online debates/wait for more info/“proof” or whatever to surface. But it’s totally different when you personally know things that shed light on the truth of the situation. I feel I have to speak up.
@Hedleyonline This statement is very sad. You could’ve moved towards real healing + truth by acknowledging what you’ve done (even if in the past) but you chose to prioritize your own egos + careers over other people’s pain. I do not believe you respect + applaud much other than yourselves.
@sarah_poll@Beaglemama4@Hedleyonline Also do some research about how often women benefit from coming forward like this VS how often it makes their lives into a living hell. Once you have educated yourself- then please, share your knowledge.
@sarah_poll@Beaglemama4@Hedleyonline Also please educate yourself about the statistics regarding how often allegations like this are false VS found to be true. Research shows that it is FAR more likely for these claims to be true. And even more likely for women not to speak up at all.