You cannot spend years breaking a child's spirit and then expect a few words in adulthood to repair what took years to destroy. You cannot teach a child to fear your footsteps, your voice, your moods, and your anger, then expect them to see you as a source of comfort later in life.
you cannot treat people a certain way, talk about them, treat them terribly & then expect them to be a nice or kind version of themselves towards you afterwards. like um no. I’m quick to act accordingly and remove myself immediately. I treat disrespect with distance tf.
Clearest sign that someone is undergoing the process that leads to psychological maturity is that they become more confrontational with those closest to them and less confrontational with strangers.
People avoiding me after they’ve done me dirty is exactly what I expect. I don’t require closure. I get it. You’re a cowardly weasel. You were a weasel when you did it, you will likely respond to the situation as a weasel would.
The more you learn about child abuse, the more you begin to realize that unconditional love is expected from children toward their parents, not the other way around. And it was never the other way around.
Mean girl energy will never make sense to me.
It is unattractive
Being rude, dismissive, and constantly talking down on other women isn’t confidence it’s insecurity .