Findom Tips & Kink Education

Doing my best to educate and support the findom and femdom community

[Findom Tips & Kink Education @findomtips]

Follow and DM your questions about kink and findom and I’ll answer anonymously.

Everything posted on this page is only my opinion and how I do things. You do you.

I have over 10 years of experience in kink, but I’m not the end all be all.

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[Findom Tips & Kink Education @findomtips]

Remember that subs still have free will. If you don’t respect that, why should they respect you?

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Being the biggest bitch in the room doesn’t make you the best Domme in the room.

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Not attracting the subs you want? Prove you are competent, understand the kinks, and understand and respect consent.

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Learn your subs innermost motivations, and what they really need from a D/s relationship and they will be eating out of the palm of your hand.

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There’s a difference between punishment and funishment. If you reward a misbehaving sub, it only reinforces bad behavior and disrespects the dynamic you have built.

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Authenticity is important. Find your own domination style. Submissives can ALWAYS tell when you’re forcing it.

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Coercion and punishment (including humiliation) for not consenting is a blatant consent violation. Respect your subs boundaries!

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Pain isn’t just physical. Find your subs mental pain points and they’ll be yours forever.

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Not every submissive likes humiliation. Not every sub is the same.

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Find your own personal charm. Emulating what everyone else is doing only makes you blend in.

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Be decisive and self-confident. If you doubt yourself or your abilities, your sub won’t be confident in you either.

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In order to train a sub, they have to understand the expectations and what they did well, as well as what they’ve done wrong.

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Pay attention to your subs tone of voice, vocabulary, mannerisms. You can learn so much through non-verbal communication.

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Empathy is SO UNDER-RATED. If you don’t know what your sub is feeling/thinking, how do you know how to control them?

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Punishment should be designed around what your subs actually find painful/uncomfortable. The same punishment doesn’t work for every sub.

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The mark of a good Domme is someone that is clear and firm in Her own boundaries.

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Keep your feed positive. Calling out timewasters, and bitching about how broke subs are is only going to make Dommes and subs alike stay away from you.

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This account is for aspiring or working Dommes to learn about D/s, psychology, and get snippets of kink education.

HMU with any questions (I can keep you anon if you want)💖

[Findom Tips & Kink Education @findomtips]

Training a submissive should not only please you, it should benefit them. If your goal isn’t to make them the best version of themselves, you’re missing the point.

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As a Domme, it’s your job to facilitate the right conversations, ask the right questions, and to know what they AREN’T telling you.

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