Putting people on a pedestal that they didn’t ask to be put on, just sets you up for disappointment and places unnecessary pressure on them. Let people show you who they are every day, and base your opinions on facts and reality - not fantasy, not potential, not hearsay, or hope.
I used to think that holding your tongue was a sign of maturity, but I realized that a true sign of growth and maturity is being able to vocalize your feelings in an appropriate manner even if you are angry. Holding your tongue just fosters unexpressed feelings that lead to
When you pray for a sign, also pray for the vision to see when it comes your way. It can be the smallest thing and you may miss it you’re not open + aware.