A combination of different factors have led to my decision to close GoRendang after 9 years. It has been an incredible experience and I wouldn't change it any other way.The end marks a new beginning.God has led me in the past and will continue to lead again.Thank you. Grateful.
5 Lessons Worth Learning
1. You can’t make everyone like you. Focus on being consistent, reliable, and true to yourself.
2. Set boundaries early. People will respect you more when you respect yourself.
3. Failure is a lesson not the verdict. Don’t let mistakes define you; let them teach you.
4: Discipline will take you further than motivation. Consistency and commitment will get you through the days you don’t feel inspired.
5: Emotions are signals. Feel them, understand them, and use them to guide wise action.
Life doesn’t come with a manual — but it gets lighter when you stop trying to control everything and start focusing on what’s true. Keep these reminders to help you live with peace, purpose, and clarity — even on the hard days.
Join my upcoming Boundaries Workshop if you want to next-level your life, challenge, inspire, and get guidance to think, grow, and set boundaries! https://t.co/WnYk6Mwsxr
The list goes on…
No matter what season of life you’re in, there are equal truths. Remember to give yourself grace even as you navigate the gray area in between. It’s normal to experience a mix of emotions in any season of life. Embrace the joy while acknowledging the struggle of the uncertainty. Both are part of your journey, and both are valid.
‘We shouldn’t be paying foreigners benefits.’
‘I find that abhorrent.’
Laila Cunningham and Sebastian Salek have a heated debate over Reform UK’s position on the two-child benefit cap for British families.
📺 Freeview 236, Sky 512, Virgin 604
Good intentions don’t build character — consistent choices do. Every decision, big or small, shapes who you’re becoming.
If you want a different life, make different choices today.
Start by changing one daily habit — say no where you’ve been saying yes, create a boundary where you’ve avoided one, and watch how your direction begins to shift.
What does the Bible say about boundaries?
God created limits in every area of life: the Sabbath, personal responsibility, marriage, parenting, and even the way we treat others. Boundaries aren’t about selfishness — they’re about living wisely, protecting yourself, and honoring God by living within the order He designed. To say “boundaries aren’t biblical” is like saying God doesn’t care how we live in His world. He does — and He gave us tools to do it well.
A working family now needs £71k just to match the income of a jobless 3-child household.
This morning Starmer will claim he’ll cut welfare, but EVERYONE knows he hiked taxes to record levels to fund a bloated welfare state. Spare us. He rewards dependency, not work. Don’t believe a word he says.
Today’s Budget was a total humiliation for Rachel Reeves. She will go down as the worst Chancellor this country has ever had.
Her position is now untenable and she knows it👇
🚨 "Wes Streeting, if you allow this to go ahead, I think you should be prosecuted. I really do."
More than 200 children – some as young as 10 – will take part in an NHS trial for puberty blockers.
@JuliaHB1
Stop waiting to feel ready. Readiness isn’t a mood. It’s a decision.
You won’t wake up one morning suddenly fearless or fully confident. You grow into readiness by acting before you feel ready for it.
Courage isn’t about not feeling afraid. It’s about moving forward anyway.
Consequences are how people learn resilience, responsibility, and growth. When you step in and shield someone from the fallout of their choices, you’re not helping—you’re actually keeping them stuck. That’s how toxic dependency is built. It feels like love, but it’s really control in disguise. True love gives others the dignity of facing their reality and growing from it.
Ask yourself: am I rescuing because I care, or because I can’t stand the discomfort of watching them struggle? One leads to growth. The other leads to repeated dysfunction.
Let go of the reins today: https://t.co/CqIj3lzoLg
I listened to Erika Kirk’s full speech at the memorial, and I want to share a few thoughts that came to me while live streaming the event. This is not political.
First, I should say that I grew up as a Muslim in a Muslim country. I don’t know enough about Christianity to say if what I witnessed is rooted in faith or culture. But what struck me most was how, even though death is heavy and this was by nature a sad occasion, the entire event carried a celebratory spirit that honored life.
That contrast hit me deeply. In Islam, even though we believe that good people go to heaven, the relationship with God is taught through fear. Funerals are overwhelmingly sad, often filled with warnings of the terrifying first night in the grave. Growing up hearing that, and then witnessing people celebrate life, speak of God’s love, and remember someone through the impact he had on others; it felt so refreshing, so positive.
Second, I was profoundly moved by @MrsErikaKirk’s words. I cannot fathom the strength it takes to stand and deliver such a meaningful speech after losing the love of your life. But even more than that, the grace it takes to forgive the very person who destroyed your world. I cannot imagine myself standing on a stage, sending love to those who cheered your husband’s murder, or inviting others to spread God’s love in response because, as she said, “we do not respond to hate with hate.” That is powerful beyond words.
Again, I am ignorant when it comes to Christianity, but if this is what it truly embodies, then I am envious of those who get to experience that feeling.