if you wanna be happy you literally cannot cannot cannot cannottttttt care what people think… like you have to practice that daily.. and stay grounded in that. long as you not hurting or hindering nobody do what you want & be unapologetic about it… daily.
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Keep your problems smaller than your life. A flat tire is a flat tire. A bad meeting is a bad meeting. A canceled flight is just an extra two hours. These things become catastrophes when you let them. But they stay manageable when you remember the depth of your real life- the people you love, the work you care about, the beautiful years still ahead. Zoom out. Fit your reaction to the size of the problem.
You know what it's 2:34Am on a Wednesday ,I have decided for the rest of the year I'll learn 3 skills in my field,stop applying for jobs then I come and show you guys what I have learnt.
if you wanna be happy you literally cannot cannot cannot cannottttttt care what people think… like you have to practice that daily.. and stay grounded in that. long as you not hurting or hindering nobody do what you want & be unapologetic about it… daily.
If you are in STEM, after graduation you have one responsibility, GROW YOUR KNOWLEDGE BASE.
Civil Engineering
Mechanical engineering
Construction
Electrical engineering
Finance
HSE
Project management
Agriculture
Economics
Business
Law.
That "boring life" is going to
save you from a lot of fake shit.
Quiet nights. Early mornings. Mind on your goals. Soul at peace. No drama. No chasing clout. No pretending to be someone you're not. Just growth, focus, and peace. Most people are addicted to noise because silence forces them to face themselves. But here's the truth...
Discipline looks boring. Consistency looks boring. Building something real looks boring.
But it's those "boring" days that stack into the life everyone wishes they had. The fake flex fades. The real ones last.
Uncommon advice:
If you don't know what to pursue in life right now, pursue yourself.
Pursue becoming the healthiest, happiest, most healed, most present, most confident version of yourself. Then the right path will reveal itself.
the best thing you can do for yourself is actively increase your surface area for luck to hit you. go outside, try new cafes, museums, events, take a new route home, speak to people, ask questions, side quest. the more you do, the more serendipity and synchronicity will find you.
Let's make this clear: If you talk to that Woman every single day, and you are giving her your time, your attention, your compliments, and your presence, she will slowly become attached and start developing real emotions.. Even if she never meant to.. Even if it wasn't part of the plan. Feelings grow naturally over time. So before you start creating that closeness and emotional bond, ask yourself if you're ready to stay consistent. Because suddenly pulling without explanation can hurt more than you realize.. Emotional inconsistency is quite common in this generation.
In order to become a better person, you must first realize how horrible you really are. Not in the dramatic sense, but in the quiet ways you sabotage yourself, repeat unhealthy patterns, hurt people who care about you, or tolerate what wounds you. You cannot grow if you keep pretending you're innocent in the story you've created.