@parul_sehgal As a trauma therapist who just finished a long work day, in a long week, in a very long couple of years, I am concerned that your message is, in a nutshell, “Shut up about your trauma. Your silence makes you more interesting.”
Automatic thoughts are thoughts that are so familiar we never stop to think about them. But just because you think “I’m not good enough” all the time, doesn’t mean it’s true. Frequency doesn’t mean accuracy.