The most exhausting part of ADHD isn't being "lazy," it's being incredibly intelligent and capable of complex problem-solving, yet being completely defeated by a single unreplied email or a pile of laundry. You spend your whole life apologizing for a "potential" you can see but can't consistently reach
I love people with ADHD because they never actually forget anything. You just have to say the right words to activate them like a sleeper cell and then they awaken with all of the knowledge on a very niche subject they studied for 3 months straight 6 years ago.
The ADHD urge to take on an unbelievably ambitious new project, in a field you previously have no experience in, with the full expectation that you’ll “figure it out somehow” along the way.