Because those causing global harm are high priests and priestesses of dark magic and still have access to the ancient crude powerful knowledge they massacred entire generations to steal and used propaganda to water down whatever was left.
this is lowkey why many allies in the west/global north will never be true allies because they will happily engage in practices so contradictory to their beliefs just for a check. it allows them to keep their privileges and comforts whilst upholding their sense of morality.
How people treat you is information, not an invitation to overanalyze. It is data, not a riddle. Their actions are simply mirrors reflecting their character, not your worth. Receive the message, adjust your boundaries, and keep moving. Not every behavior deserves your confusion.
It’s no coincidence birdsong regulates our nervous systems & lowers cortisol. Birdsong is how birds announce the area is free from predators. They don’t just signal safety to fellow birds, they signal to the entire ecosystem. The human brain attuned to this signal over centuries.
“That man hates you”.
“He humiliated you”.
“He embarrassed you”.
No. You guys are obsessed with trying to make women internalize the poor character of these abusive men.
That man hates himself, and tried to make your problem.
That man humiliated himself and tried to make your problem.
That man embarrassed himself, and tried to make it problem.
“She can’t keep a man”. It’s so easy to keep a man ya’ll. I promise. All you gotta do is allow them to lie and cheat in peace, don’t challenge their patterns, and don’t address anything they do that hurts you. You’ll keep them for years and years until they find their next toy.
If your boss spanked you for doing a bad job at work, that would be assault and sexual harassment. But when you do it to children it's just rough parenting. This is because you do not see children as people