Helena

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 Such an important thing to teach your kids: marry the right person.

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 My father was a gentleman as well so that helps

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 I have six sociopath brothers (but also one beautiful sister, thank God); was super worried those genes would come through my children but guess what, my husband is a gentleman. Everyone everywhere compliments how well behaved my kids are. Phew.

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 Interesting.

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 I do wonder if birth control use is as good an excuse as people say. I have a Dr acquaintance who theorizes that long-term bc use causes first pregnancy miscarriages

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 I don’t understand everyone saying this stuff. Why don’t they just say they don’t want babies in their forties? Is it to avoid feelings of inferiority?

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 Also, I live less than a mile from a hospital so it works for me

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 😆 my midwives clean everything up immediately, like you wouldn’t know the baby was born right there. You buy a cpl sheet sets, so many towels, and line your bed with a plastic shower curtain, and so on, plus they bring tons of chux pads and whatever else they need.

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 Fair

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 There are perimenopause symptoms that can be chalked up to mental health problems

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 Yeah she’s otherwise healthy. She suggested we read Naomi Watts’s perimenopause book so I read half / it was cringe. Seemed like a lady who didn’t understand herself or her sexuality. Maybe a common problem

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 I speculate that she maybe doesn’t like her husband all that much… who knows. Interesting thing is that her and her husband look like twins.

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 Was at dinner with a few friends a couple weeks ago. We’re 40s. Discussing perimenopause. Gal pulls out her notes from her Dr appointment and I was sitting next to her so I glanced. Three medications listed, two ssri’s and one drug for female libido 😬

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 And it’s honestly so sad when a good man does this. Like, ok not only is no one caring for your children but now you have no one to care for you either.

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 If you don’t nurture them, they become sociopaths.

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 Her father or grandfather should have already taken care of this debt. Her boyfriend is just coming up with excuses. She’s calling in so maybe she is going to actually figure this out - hard for most to do.

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 Probably more accurate; your environment is shaped by your genes

[Helena @Laneygaga1]

@Alexandrovna805 I do this at four months but the problem for me is that I get my period back immediately after that first bite of yogurt! Even with 24/7 on demand nursing.