1 of the greatest things I’ve learned is that when someone seemingly start acting funny/off towards you, 9/10 what caused that reaction, HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. & bc of that, the best thing I started, was lettin ppl breathe and give them they time cuz they clearly need it lol
I'm really going through a major detachment phase, please watch how u speak to me. that goes for family, friends and relationships. yall are on VERY thin ice.. I'm not in the mood for life, let alone anyones bullshit.
a girl on tik tok just said “I would rather adjust my life to your absence, than adjust my boundaries to accommodate your disrespect” and I think that a lot of people need to take that and really engrave it into their soul.
Don’t yall hate when you tell someone you don’t talk to a family member anymore and the first thing they say is life is short? Like yea I know…which is why I’m not finna spend it tolerating several forms of abuse and narcissism 😭TF
I want Black women to get comfortable with telling people “you’re not doing enough for me” & “I want more than you are capable or willing to provide.” More times than not people come into our lives and leave with more than what they had and we’re left with nothing. That’s dead.
I thought last year humbled me but this year took the cake. i lost so much , I learned so much , I gained so much and now I know too much. I know 2022 gone be good to me cause when you know better , you do better 🦋