I had a great talk with my dad a few minutes ago, he told me that “toxic people/abusers will bat at you like a cat does to a mouse. If you move towards your future instead of focusing on your past, that is the best way to make them mad.” I like that.
@MelindaBlue @dy570p14n @StormyXdreamers Exactly. In my case, they tried to use my lashing out to invalidate my abuse and i straight up owned up to it and acknowledged it was wrong but i later learned that the lashing out was a defense mechanism against the abuse. Seems odd that it went away after i left my abuser...
@StormyXdreamers True but my tweet is more ab tearing down the ppl who the abuser sends after you so theyll realize either that theyre in the wrong or theyll just fk off entirely