when I say my love language is physical touch "but you don't like people touching you". that's exactly why it's my love language. it's reserved for people i truly love and feel most comfortable with
Iโm very heavy on reciprocation. you reach out, I reach out. you๏ฟฝ๏ฟฝre distant, Iโm distant. you check on me, I check on you. youโre inconsistent with me, so am i. you spoil me, i spoil you. I will not overplay my part. I deal with people exactly how they deal with me.
It's so selfish to enter someone's life, see that they're a loving, cheerful, and good person, and decide to ruin their peace because you haven't dealt with your own issues. Leave people alone if you have no intention of showing up with sincerity.