Adulting has a way of making you crave genuine companionship, whether in a best friend or a lover. You just want one person you can rely on and talk to through it all. No one should have to go through these things alone.
in friendships and romance I keep realizing it doesn’t matter so much that someone is different from you it matters that they have the desire and capacity to meet you in the middle
When you’re quiet and people perceive you the way they want and fill in the blanks themselves so there are several varying versions of you just floating amongst different people like hey I want that version of me back you can’t keep that
there's no shame in taking longer. you aren't behind, and your timing isn't wrong. your path is just different. life isn't a competition or a race. we all have different strengths and struggles and traumas, different opportunities and access and resources. be easy on yourself🤍
@shaTIRED mmmmm no this is not always the case i personally just refused to use slurs and i just didn’t speak the same way others did and was ridiculed for it 🧑🦯
@xclusivestories@CYBURSPRITE@mjxup@crystalbaee1 do you honestly think after being cheated on by someone who she is married to she cares about being the better person? ideals are nice but they aren’t everything, let’s not reach for invalidating how she let this out
i wish i had more friends who were on my level maturity wise, but maturing faster has its drawbacks and i have to deal with the reality that a lot of people may never reach this bc of how they choose to live and perceive