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Counselling / Psychotherapy. Compassion, integration and a deliberate presence in relationship. Experience shapes us.

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@DrMcFillin I wanted to respond to Mr Ruffalos post but resisted because I wasn’t sure I could do it without being so rude I looked petty …. But omg it’s amazing to see how far down the rabbit hole people will go rather than stepping back and looking with fresh eyes

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@EricJZeitler @DoctorPerin This mirrors my experience - I actually find the difference between 4 and 5 disproportionately stark compared with 3 to 4 …..

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@teentherapist @JonathanShedler I guess that fits at the heart of the pluralistic approach

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@DennisTirchPhD I needed to hear this - thank you … I’ll let you know how it goes 🙏

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At 80 some yrs his experience is too large to quantify, I believe next year will be his last visiting the uk - delivering workshops- catch him while you can 🙏

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2 days wonderfully spent with the brilliant Dr R Erskine. Science and methods of relational therapy. Not just the relationship, the careful and deliberate relational presence of a therapist attuned to the clients experience - allowing script to be re written and real healing

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@PluralPractice @AngelGabriel533 I really enjoyed it - especially the celebration of the grey areas we (therapists) spend our time navigating- a welcome balm to the reactionary responses the less thoughtful often demand I fall in line with - it’s not black and white it’s grey

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@Ryan_Daigler 😊🙏

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@Theholisticpsyc Substitute with “anxiety” too

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@drockerr @MarkLRuffalo But surely the diagnosis disempowers the individual experience- they didn’t catch bpd from walking down the street - it’s a false hope - depth and understanding matter

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@famm321 @SarahFelton9 @mickcooper77 Barring is diff to DBS. whilst only effects employment is effective in cases of disrepute etc,
It's about having an independent way of upholding agreed expectations

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@aclientfirst @anidelaprida @drpeterblundell @storiesmidlife @MindworksU @mickcooper77 Ok - so by protecting titles MBS standards are upheld or you lose right to practice as counsellor or psychotherapist?
Sounds a positive option to me .....

Just the whole dual role minefield to negotiate then ....

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@aclientfirst @anidelaprida @drpeterblundell @storiesmidlife @MindworksU @mickcooper77 If the PSA were happy to accept the responsibility and the systems built in -that would be great 🙌

I was only aware of their role in being the gatekeeper of a register which had specific entry requirements

I'm just advocating for this level of client protection to be built in

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@aclientfirst @anidelaprida @drpeterblundell @storiesmidlife @MindworksU @mickcooper77 I think stat reg allows a safeguarding process -
removal of those who have committed clearly harmful acts -eg sexual harassment or stalking.....

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@ngaori 💜🙏

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@SarahFelton9 @mickcooper77 Personally I think the Harold Shipman argument is poor.

Safeguarding in regulated proffesion such as teaching removes many many harmful teachers from the system- preventing repeated harm.

Without the regulation there would be a sig increase in incidents of harm.

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@lawyerwritermom @ScapegoatAbuse From my clinical obs. It seems to me they dont always have a strong enough sense of self as they are brought up to serve the narc.
Imo more likely verge towards something that presents as c- ptsd

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@plumjam61 💜🙏

[Kat @Counselling_Kat]

Still recruiting participants for the much under researched effects of social class within counselling! #counselling #socialclass #therapeuticrelationship