It’s extremely important to learn how to be ok on your own. You have to learn how to pick yourself back up when you fall, provide for yourself, wipe ur tears away & make yourself happy. Having people there for you is truly great but you can't depend on them to always be there.
Be grateful for what walked away. For the relationships that ended. For the doors that closed. For the plans that fell apart. They made room for what's actually meant for you. Sometimes it’s not a loss, it’s a blessing.
The deepest proof of care is when a person lets you disturb their patterns, that's when you'll know they're invested in you. See, ppl confuse effort with investment. Effort is flowers, dinners, late night calls. Cute, yes. But effort doesn't always cost someone anything real.
I heard someone say, “no contact for you is just a regular day for them” and I never looked back. Stop obsessing over people who aren’t losing any sleep over you.