People are willing to be sad everyday, cry everyday, just because they love someone who doesnโt value them anymore, appreciate and cherish them anymore. What value does all that love add to your life then, I ask myself โค๏ธ
In the Xhosa culture, especially Abathembu, a child who was born out of wedlock belongs to the mother's family. Other tribes should stop bringing their customs and traditions in this situation.
The nerve to question how is Zoleka a Mandela ๐ค which level of desperation to invalidate and eject her from her true identity just for cheap gossiping? Why attack on a person who can no longer speak for herself. Honestly #ZolekaMandela doesn't deserve this. It's a low blow
There are people you should cut ties with like yesterday for your own peace and sanity, but there are also those you need to take a break from just for you to catch a breath. Just a tiny twinky break โค๏ธ
If you're a parent who is kind outside there and a monster at home, or a partner who is sweet out there but horrible to umntu wakho, just know that you are a Fraud โค๏ธ