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proudly Agbafian

[ojordesign @Ojorcreative]

Ahhh
Fuel 1400 and no light o
I no dey vote APC o
Even Okpes baby I no vote for second tenure o

[Reads with Ravi @readswithravi]

You don’t look like your goals, you look like your habits. Effort never lies.

[ojordesign @Ojorcreative]

UBTH C1 has taken another life because of no oxygen.
The children has sold everything including their house, landed property to save their mother’s life
But all to no avail💔

[Reads with Ravi @readswithravi]

Your brain can learn anything if you practice it daily.

[Reads with Ravi @readswithravi]

“Confidence comes from preparation.”

— Kobe Bryant

[Tevin Macharia Mukabana @TevinMacharia]

Congregation breaks down in tears as apostle Joshua selman explain the power of waiting on God regardless of present situation.

[ojordesign @Ojorcreative]

I’m letting go, Letting GOD!

[ojordesign @Ojorcreative]

@jon_d_doee I think he should start his own life and get an accommodation, he’s old enough to do so, he should tell his brother this. If his elder brother is nice enough he should be excited about his move

[Jerry Eze @RealJerryEze]

AND GOD SETTLED ME !
What God Cannot Do Does Not Exist !! #NSPPD #7amFirePrayers

[Jerry Eze @RealJerryEze]

AND GOD SETTLED ME !
What God Cannot Do Does Not Exist !! #NSPPD #7amFirePrayers

[ojordesign @Ojorcreative]

@jon_d_doe The girl should let him go, he will keep using her.
Or make he keep go do bbl for the girl.

[Jerry Eze @RealJerryEze]

NO MORE DELAY !
What God Cannot Do Does Not Exist !! #NSPPD #7amFirePrayer

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Show me multiple evidence of a woman who is cheating on her man, and then later got engaged and is set to wed.

Then you see the different men that she cheated with, coming online to drag her or exposing private conversations so as to shame her.

When we say that men are the prize, some of these fish brains will be comvulsing.

If that lady is my sister or daughter, I'll draw her closer, and counsel her properly and still support her to get married to her man.

A young man that is doing well financially for himself is every lady's dream man.

And if you open your toto for him, e go knack you wotowoto.

And still go back to the lady where his heart lies.

He chose her, not them.

And she should not give them the opportunity to make her remain in the streets like them.

Na frustration, envy and misery dey worry dem.

End.

[ojordesign @Ojorcreative]

@jon_d_doee I’m sorry to hear this. She should Turn to God.
Join NSPPD

[Àgbà John Doe (back up) @jon_d_doee]

Two married men (a bus driver and a banker) recently discovered that their wives have been inflating the school fees of their children.

A school board chairman had to step in to try and resolve the matter.

Well, there isn't much that he can do since the extra money wasn't paid into the school's account.

Their wives ate the money.

Honestly, I have never experienced this in my marriage of more than 16 years.

But it's sad that some married men are experiencing it.

Who do we really blame here?

The men who married wives that they did not properly vet with money and accountability, or the women who are just greedy despite the fact that their husbands wanted to trust them?

I have never directly paid the school fees of my children. I get to see the school's breakdown of fees, and I give my wife the money to make the payments directly.

Then she brings the receipts to me.

Not only that, I don't need to announce to my children that I have paid their school fees.

Their mother tells them and they come to me to say "thank you daddy, for paying our school fees".

I have always said that, in marriage, a man owes his wife financial transparency and his wife owes him financial accountability.

Where this is largely missing in marriage, that's where you'd see fathers going to the schools to make enquiry by themselves and making the payment directly as well.

Not only that, you'd see fathers announcing to their children that they have paid their school fees so that it will be on record.

It's unfortunate.

But there is something that I am aware that some mothers do, which I am not against.

In some cases, we have mothers who have already paid the school fees due to delays by the men, and they will not let the men know, so that they can get back their money.

The major reason why some mothers do that is because some of their husbands will either relax and not bother giving back the money or they now make it a norm where he pays sometimes, and she pays sometimes.

School fees is not the direct responsibility of a mother or a wife.

It's the responsibility of the husband and father.

So if you have a wife who sometimes supports you with it, you should not see it as your right.

See it as a privilege and blessing that you have a kind and supportive wife, and do not take undue advantage of it.

Unless you honestly and sincerely do not have it.

Back to the main topic:

I have repeatedly advised young men on several ways that they can vet their serious girlfriends monetarily.

One way to know that she is going to be financially accountable is when you give her money to either do something for you, or for herself.

And then, she tries to let you know how she spent the money or what she did with the money that you gave to her.

For instance, if you are stupid enough to give your jobless or broke girlfriend 500k to buy a phone, and she uses the entire 500k to buy the phone, then you are dating a woman that is wasteful.

A sensible woman will buy a phone of 250k and show you what she did with the remaining 250k.

I hope you understand.

AJD.

[ojordesign @Ojorcreative]

@jon_d_doee Patiently waiting for his feed back

[Jerry Eze @RealJerryEze]

FREEDOM BY FIRE !
THE NEW HAS COME !!
What God Cannot Do Does Not Exist !!! #NSPPD #7amFirePrayers

[Jerry Eze @RealJerryEze]

REHOBOTH !
What God Cannot Do Does Not Exist !!
#NSPPD #7amFirePrayers

[Jerry Eze @RealJerryEze]

PERFECTED !COMPLETED !!
SETTLED !!!
What God Cannot Do Does Not Exist !!!
#NSPPD #7amFirePrayers

[Àgbà John Doe @jon_d_doe]

Marriage is not "I found a perfect person."

It is "I found a person I can correct and tolerate, and who can correct and tolerate me, without both of us packing a bag every week."

Perfection in marriage is an illusion.

Because you're married to your "best enemy".

End.