Everyone here can’t post what you like, and we all judge based on our preferences, opinions and perspectives. The best you can do is to like some of their post that your frontal lobes accept and neglect what ain’t right with you. No one is island of knowledge. Anyone can flaw.
I feel we need more transparency on the data. Probably from those who followed up with past SAED agencies after NYSC camp. What were the actual impact levels?
2016 I was around my family house in ilorin and there was a lady hawking amala. I asked her to give me 2 amala and 5 meat but she insisted max of 3 meat.
When I was hawking I hardly cared even if I carry 100 wraps of swallow, the meat, fish and egg with be like 2.5times the swallow naira value.
Ijebu love meat
If two people start a company and one contributes 90% of the capital while the other contributes just 10%, when the business starts struggling, who do you think is more likely to walk away first? Exactly, Now apply that same principle to your relationships
Some guys will felt why can't you borrow them the funds instead of buying off their stuffs. Whereas lending people money might be hard ehn despite been friend.
I am not sure i can sell for a friend coz I don't want a situation they will feel what they bought ain't standard enough
Dear Men,
You don’t have to carry every burden alone.
Strength isn’t pretending that nothing hurts. Strength is recognizing when you’re overwhelmed and having the courage to deal with it in healthy ways.
Go for a run. Lift weights. Play basketball. Pray. Write your thoughts down. Spend time with people who genuinely care about you. Do an act of service. Take a break from social media. Talk to someone you trust.
The goal isn’t to never struggle. The goal is to have healthy outlets for those struggles.
Your mind deserves care just as much as your body does.
You are not weak for feeling tired.
You are not weak for feeling lost.
You are not weak for needing support.
You are human!
Protect your peace. Build healthy habits. And remember:
The strongest men are not those who suffer in silence, but those who have the courage to heal.❤️
•~Men’s Mental Health Awareness~•
Here we are.
Went to kwarapoly.
I hustled for my school fees except year 1 which I was supported with 40k.
I knew how to weave Aso Oke because that's my dad business and I used holiday time to secure some funds also I do collect the contract while in school. Those Aso oke weavers around school area and Omoda do help me with the job so I can have time for myself and I do go check on them every 2 days. Thanks to my mum for foodstuffs especially garri, rice, oil and grounded pepper.
It really save lives and despite all these some still believe I was privileged then.
Alhamdulillahi.
I took a lot of things for granted in life.
I'm just realizing some of the privileges I had growing up, especially effortlessly affording basic things of life. I was never a buttie, but I didn't know some of these things. Food, school fees, and basic clothing were never a problem. Never needed to do any work for income purpose during my dependency years (ie until after NYSC).
I didn't know until last year - at age 43 - that there were people that needed to do site work before paying school fees of even cheap public universities like OAU.
This doesn't mean I didn't know people were struggling then. I had a couple of friends that struggled to raise school fees when OAU raised school fees to N2k in 2003. But they were helped by religious and social communities (MSSN, family & friends etc). So it never became severe to the extent of dropping out. The people I knew that struggled had some form of support.
Realizing there were people that couldn't even get social and communal support breaks me. Meeting a young man that scored 295 in UME, got admission into OAU, but dropped out in second year because he couldn't afford accommodation (100 level accommodation is almost free, subsequent ones you find your level, at high cost) is depressing.