Pravda

Self-produced band from Cape Town. Music. Writing. Arts. Things that matter.

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Poor me https://t.co/0iEO3pnEDM

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This thread can be read here: https://t.co/hPMQHoxDiA

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Should you aim to be an average dad?

A thread ⬇️ https://t.co/hPMQHoxDiA

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All we can do is our best under the circumstances. Ignore the rest, and ignore those who feel they know better.

Much love
-- John

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Having a child changes everything. It's a hard reset. Your partner might suddenly (and quite justifiably) feel entitled to become a totally different person. You see a new type of instinctive defensiveness and a potentially vicious protectiveness you've never seen before.

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It’s not just about the baby

A thread ⬇️ https://t.co/yuf4EoCWMh

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This is, of course, if you're fortunate enough to be in a loving relationship where your partner is an active and present member of the family and has the child's interest at heart.