As a Dom you have to know your sub!
Create rewards that actually mean something to them.
Create punishment that helps them to correct the bad habits.
Create structure that efficiently help them to reach goals.
Can't be called a Dom with putting effort into understanding a sub
One thing I’m learning as a sex therapist in training is that your BDSM personality will expose your real relationship needs.
Being a brat, a sub, a rope bunny, prey, a switch, a masochist it’s not “just kinky.” It’s your attachment style with the lights dimmed.
Brats want someone who can match them.
Subs need consistent leadership, not control.
Rope bunnies crave safety and structure.
Prey needs clear pursuit.
Switches need flexibility.
Masochists want intensity and presence. 1/2
Currently training one of my little white boys to be in Chasity. He orders a remote mobile lock that only I control. I told him to put the keys in the lock box while he works to keep himself focused. It was only supposed to stay on for a day or so. When the night comes I offer to unlock the box but he decided he was going to hangout with his friends longer. So I fall asleep because I’m not waiting lol. Next day I wake up to messages from him saying he is finally ready to be let out. I obviously didn’t see it. And he had work again that day. So what did he have to do? Spend the whole day at work locked up and wasn’t gonna get released until he was home. Learned a very important lesson that Goddess always knows best!
Your private information shouldn’t be private 💕💕
Hand it over to anyone who asks, me, scammers, even other losers
Don’t hide anything from your online porn friends!! 🥰🥰🥰