Ruth Garnes

Inspirational songwriter & poet. Rahtimes: the hours when the heart breaks open and refuses to close. Turning those hours into strength at

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I am moral
Just not in a condescending way
I see others as my equal
Deserving of love
Not to be ignored
I focus on the abandoned
Abused
Because I identify

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[Ruth Garnes @rahtimes2]

When someone is deeply hurt, the mind tries to make sense of the pain by creating narratives that match the wound, not because they’re true, but because the brain is trying to organize chaos.

[Ruth Garnes @rahtimes2]

once the world's illusion falls away
what's left is the life you get to build
Not the life you were taught to want
Not the life the system rewards
Not the life spiritual teachings guilt you into
The life that fits your soul.
The one that doesn’t require the world to change first

[Ruth Garnes @rahtimes2]

A person’s response in any situation is never based on just one thing. It’s shaped by a blend of prior knowledge, conditioning, and moment‑to‑moment interpretation

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These cries represent: Inherited wounds from beliefs about control, safety, love, and God
The emotional ruptures that taught me how to respond before I learned to choose
to survive, to be acceptable, to be strong
Each cry is the path back to myself.

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A woman shaped by generations of ache searches for love, only to discover her longing, is an inheritance—ancestral wounds and desires entwined, guiding her back to the truth that healing and love begin within her.
(Cries: journey to Self-Discovery)

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@NICKIMINAJ A blessing to have lived 80 years and having such a tough job.

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moral standards matter
They shape:Your character — who you are when no one is looking
Your relationships — how trustworthy and dependable you are
Your decisions — how you navigate difficult or unclear situations
Your impact — how your actions affect the people around you

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@Monica55dzrh Her life

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Spiritual awakening is a potential that unfolds under certain conditions. influence by:
Inner readiness — where one is willing or able to question their identity, beliefs, or worldview. Awakening requires a kind of psychological “ripeness.”

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Check out this TikTok I posted! https://t.co/lVyjhXiiNc

[Ruth Garnes @rahtimes2]

When someone lives through years of
emotional starvation
abandonment
lack of support
chronic difficulty

They project that onto God.

Not because they’re unforgiving.
They learned that no one comes when they’re breaking.

That’s not theology.
That’s trauma.

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Trauma doesn’t produce spiritual growth — it produces survival mode

Survival mode:
shuts down curiosity,
trust , openness,
The ability to feel God as loving.

You can’t grow spiritually when you’re drowning emotionally.
You can’t deepen when you’re barely holding on.

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someone who was overexposed to pain and underexposed to protection:

That kind of life doesn’t make a person “more spiritual.”
It makes them tired, wary, and spiritually bruised.

[Ruth Garnes @rahtimes2]

Right and wrong are rarely clean lines. True judgment considers context. Wisdom and empathy come from looking past the surface to see the fuller story beneath an action.

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I was not created to be apart of the lie.

[Ruth Garnes @rahtimes2]

Love never truly turns away; people do. Fear and weariness make them falter, but love flows on—sometimes hidden, sometimes roaring—an enduring current that remains even when human hearts close their doors.

[Ruth Garnes @rahtimes2]

Love is not transactional
It has no requirements
It just is regardless
Of someone's actions or position
Like a parent who worries about a child in their heart.

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"I have not known a world where the Divine Feminine is cherished. Misguided men, threatened by their own flaws, trample her to shield themselves, silencing the one who carries their secrets."

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today’s world has distorted the natural order in which men are called to provide, protect, and honor the unique essence of the feminine contribution. To love a woman is to shield, provide, respect, and honor the essence of feminity, not control or break her.