My boy in NYC matched with a beautiful mid on Hinge yesterday.
Initial convo was fire. Flirting and Banter off the charts. He gets her number quickly. They're texting all day yesterday.
Today, she asks HIM out for drinks...tonight at 8 PM.
He says no-- it's Game 3 of Finals for the Knicks.
She goes "Oh, I don't watch Sports..is that Baseball?"
He unmatched & blocked her number right after.
Right call??
First Date Essential Advice ‼️
The BIGGEST mistake dudes make is within the first 3 seconds of the date.
When you meet her you HAVE to give her a hug hello.
This isn’t a business meeting. No handshakes. No awkward hand waves.
A hug instantly breaks the touch barrier. It creates warmth early, exudes calmness and confidence, making her already intrigued by you.
The first impression is CRITICAL. If you come across as awkward, you’re cooked.