Swap the phones for newspapers and this is a subway photo from 1920.
A sociologist named Erving Goffman described exactly this in 1963. He called it civil inattention: the learned habit of acknowledging that a stranger exists, then pulling your attention back so you don't intrude on them. A quick glance, then you look away. In a space packed with people you will never see again, looking away is the courtesy.
It's the quiet contract that lets a few hundred strangers share a tight platform without friction. You signal "I see you, you're no threat, I won't bother you." Phones slotted neatly into that ritual. They are the most convincing prop anyone has ever had for performing it.
The newspaper did the same job for a century. Subway photos from the 1920s through the 1970s show entire rows of riders vanished behind broadsheets, every face covered, nobody speaking. Radio got blamed for ending conversation. So did the Walkman. So did the cheap paperback before either of them. Each new object inherited the same eulogy: this is the thing that finally isolated us.
Connection on a subway platform was always rare. Strangers waiting for a train kept to themselves long before anyone had a screen to disappear into. The phone's real footprint is at the dinner table and in the living room, the places where idle attention used to have nowhere to go and now always does.
The behavior in this photo is a hundred years old. The object in everyone's hands is the only part that keeps getting replaced.
“For those who were to experience the sorrow of his departure, it was destined to be a unique and abiding consolation”
When Aquinas cooks, the boy COOKS
@NotFarLeftAtAll If this is real then I am scared for him. If he only fell off he would really mess himself up having so little clothes to protect his skin, not to mention the worry of him in traffic
Please chant the Holy Name - Various atonements, great austerities, can destroy some sin, but the Holy Name is much more powerful. By simple chanting of the Holy Name, it not only destroys sin but gradually destroys the tendency to commit more sin. As Śrīla Prabhupāda said, the seed of sin is also destroyed. So we should all take shelter of the Holy Name.